The latest trend in pre-wedding festivities is throwing a joint bachelorette and bachelor party, and it's catching on fast. Not only is it a practical solution, but it also brings a whole new level of fun and connection to the wedding journey. Here’s why this trend is a hit and why we absolutely love it.

Quality Time for Bridesmaids and Groomsmen

A combined celebration allows the bridesmaids and groomsmen to spend quality time together before the big day. This bonding time can lead to a more cohesive and enjoyable wedding experience for everyone involved. Will there really be another time to get the groom's and the bride's besties together for one trip?! Here’s why this is a game-changer:

• Building Lifelong Connections: When the bridal party and the groom’s party get to know each other more deeply, it can create lasting friendships between your closest friends. Who knows, maybe you'll make this an annual trip!
• Wedding Day Friendships: Spending quality time together in a relaxed setting before the wedding will only make the wedding day more fun! No more awkward introductions, the bridal and groom's party will have already met and will be more outgoing and engaging on the wedding day.

Cost-Effective Celebration

One of the most significant advantages of planning a joint bachelorette and bachelor party is the cost savings. Weddings are expensive, and any opportunity to cut down on costs without sacrificing the fun is a win. Here’s how combining the two parties can save you money:

• Shared Expenses: By planning one trip instead of two, you can split the cost of accommodations, transportation, and activities among a larger group, making it more affordable for everyone.
• Group Discounts: Larger groups often qualify for discounts on lodging, excursions, and even dining, adding to the overall savings.
• Single Destination: Choosing one destination means you only have to pay for one set of travel expenses, reducing the financial burden on your friends.

Balance of Separate and Group Activities

One of the biggest concerns with a joint party is the fear of losing out on your girls time or boys bonding time. However, with a bit of planning, you can strike the perfect balance between separate and group activities:

• Separate Activities: Plan specific times for the bride and her bridesmaids to enjoy activities like spa days or brunches, while the groom and his groomsmen can go golfing or take a brewery tour.
• Group Gatherings: Bring everyone together for dinners, nightlife, or adventurous activities that everyone can enjoy, like boat parties, beach days or nightlife activities.

Suggested Destinations and Activities

Destinations:

1. Lake Tahoe:
   
   • Why: Offers stunning natural beauty, outdoor activities, and vibrant nightlife.
   • Activities: Skiing or snowboarding in winter, hiking, and boating in summer.
   Park City, Utah:
   • Why: Ideal for those who love the mountains, with year-round outdoor adventures.
   • Activities: Skiing, mountain biking, and exploring Main Street at night.
   Asheville, North Carolina:
   • Why: Known for its vibrant arts scene, craft breweries, and beautiful Blue Ridge Mountains.
   • Activities: Brewery tours, hiking, and visiting the Biltmore Estate for wine tasting.
   Key West, Florida:
   • Why: Perfect for a tropical getaway with a laid-back vibe and lively nightlife.
   • Activities: Snorkeling, sunset cruises, and exploring Duval Street.
   Fort Lauderdale, Florida:
   • Why: Offers beautiful beaches, upscale dining, and a variety of water activities.
   • Activities: Beach lounging, boat tours, and waterfront dining.

Themes to Consider

1. Camp Bach / I Do Cabin Crew: Think adult summer camp vibes with a mountain and outdoor destination.
2. Last Toast on the Coast: Classic linens, whites, and baby blues with a beach destination.
3. Tropic like it's hot: Think South Beach. Bright colors, printed shirts, pool floats, and tropical drinks for a fun getaway vibe.
4. Glitz & Glam: Think Great Gatsby. Glamorous attire, champagne showers, and disco balls for a classy night out dressed to the nines.

Activities

At the Rental:

• Cooking class or mixology class
• Backyard BBQ
• Murder Mystery dinner
• Game night
• Casino night

On the Town:

• Pub crawl / vineyard tour
• Skiing / Snowboarding
• Boat day
• Beach day / Pool party
• Hiking
• Pedalpub
• Concert
• Comedy show
• Karaoke night

Final Tips

• Involve Both Parties: Ensure both the bride and groom have a say in the planning to reflect their personalities and preferences.
• Budget Wisely: Find a balance that works for all attendees and consider splitting costs for accommodations and activities.
• Keep Communication Open: Use Let's Jetty's group planning app to open suggestions to the group and keep everyone informed as travel plans come together.

By embracing the trend of joint bachelorette and bachelor parties, you’re not only saving money but also creating an inclusive, memorable, and fun experience for everyone involved. It’s the perfect way to kick off your wedding celebrations and build lasting bonds with your closest friends. Happy planning!

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